Life
has a way of coming back to you full circle!!
Twenty
years ago, I remember being asked again and again why did
I have to go to Bombay to study “Social work”?
And yes, did “Social work” actually qualify as a study stream? While in Bombay peers at the same institution doing Personnel
Management often made sarcastic remarks about
those of us in the social work department. It was annoying but considering that there
were over sixty of us in the Social work department one did not have to deal with it alone.
Today
the circle was completed. My daughter came home from school seething in
anger! A 12th standard
student ,she is one of the two in her
class who has taken an elective course in English Literature. She has two tests coming up on Thursday – History and
Literature. When she told a classmate
that Tuesday and Wednesday were going to be difficult days trying to study for two
tests coming up on Thursday, the girl asked her if Literature actually needed
any ‘studying’!!!
I
think she handled this quip better than how I might have handled it at her
age. She explained calmly to this girl
that Literature is not just about reading “story books” . One had to understand
, analyze and interpret it in one’s own
way, making references to other interpretations!! But the anger was there
bubbling just below the surface! I realize that came from the fact that the
question had not come from a science student but from a fellow student in the Humanities
class!! I guess this is something that
she has to come to terms with if she is going to major in English Literature as
she plans. A lot of people are going to
tell her that she is “wasting her time”
or worse !
I
think one of the problems with our education system is the way it assigns value
to courses. Students doing certain courses are considered to be “brighter” than
others. In the assigned hierarchy of courses within the Indian school system, Humanities and social sciences get the lower
rank. Subjects like Literature probably have the distinction of being the
lowest among the low rated courses. It
is not something that we can change. But I think
what this experience has taught her is to stand by what she believes in and explain her stand.
It
is sad that a country like ours that has such a rich literary heritage, should
think that the subject means nothing!! Children only reflect what they hear
adults speak. My daughter’s school is a
very progressive one where each child is
encouraged to explore and express their talents. But despite the open
mindedness of the school, there are biases that a child is exposed to in the
home front which they imbibe. As parents we do that often – consciously or unconsciously!
There are stereotypes arising out of our
own incomplete knowledge, which we
perpetuate. Analytical thinking for example, is not unique to science. It extends to literary
works. Analyzing a poem from various perspectives is something that requires as
much learning as does solving of a quadratic equation. Actually, as a student
who studied mathematics until my under graduate level I would say solving
mathematical problems is easier once you work out the logic. Literature on the
other hand requires considerable interpretation of intangibles that is sometimes beyond a sixteen year old’s capacity
to grasp! A good teacher ( like my
daughter’s) helps the student develop that. Few people understand this! Literature is not just about writing good
English. It is like saying that a student who knows her formulae and tables
should be the topper at Maths. These are but aids .
One
of the challenges within our education system is that we are unable to help our
learners understand and appreciate what I would call “shades of grey”!!! It is
easier to process something as black and white. Children are taught to look for
“right” or “wrong” in their answers. But subjects like “Literature”
unfortunately do not have a “right” or “wrong” answer. It is like being an “artist”
– your ability to interpret and express. But I realize now, that Literature does
not get even quite the same recognition as art in the education system. A student who is
studying “art” is seen as “talented” while the Literature student is seen as someone who wants to have an easy way through
higher education!!!
But
like I told my daughter, ultimately it not about what others think of you but
what you think about yourself that matters. For a sixteen year old searching for her identity, I suppose it can
be difficult. But I am glad that I see
an emerging person who is confident and not easily swayed by anyone’s opinion
! I am also happy that she is not
succumbing to peer pressure when it comes to expressing what she thinks. I can almost see life coming full circle and…..
meeting myself….. but not quite…. ! This young lady has a lot more diplomacy in
tempering her expressions! A pragmatic
approach that tells me that she is using her head as much as her heart!
Kids should be allowed to pursue whatever interests them. There should not be any parental or peer pressure. Parents pressure the kids and decide certain “majors” are key to financial success, i.e. Medical, Engineering, Chartered Accountancy, etc.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in college, I did the same mistake. When I was introduced to a girl (my future wife) and met her for the first time, my first words to her was “What is your major?”. She said “English Literature”. I replied “You are wasting your time”. Now thinking back, I think it was idiotic.
I wrote a humorous post on College Major. It is a funny one. But the last para gives a serious message. May be your daughter want to read it.
http://sg-shootthebreeze.blogspot.com/2010/09/college-major.html
I think you are right about your daughter. She is not cowed down by intemperate remarks.
ReplyDeleteHonestly I also feel sometimes that students in science stream may be more intelligent than the rest ,, the ones in Humanities.
But then the human mind , its ability and capacity to dream, to visualise and appreciate existed long before science was inculcated or inventions and discoveries took place in the age of the cave men.
Music, painting for instance I'm certain preceded scientific thoughts.
I vote for humanities.
Hahaha.Glad you see yourself,nay,a better yourself in your daughter.You blazed a new trail when you took social work as your subject as it was after your heart.Good that the girl has the same streak and English literature is a vast ocean where one can soak in joy and admiration.To dare to be different from the commonplace does not come by to all.My best wishes to the girl and felicitations to you for giving her the freedom to choose what she fancies.
ReplyDeletetwenty years .. twenty years but the rocks haven't nudged even half an inch.. I am glad the young lady is able to get herself above the conditioning and do what is good for her.. Kudos to her .. :)
ReplyDelete@ SG, Anil, KP and Simple girl, thanks for your encouragement. As parents, my husband and I have tried to keep ourselves from influencing her. There are talents in her which we see but which she doesn't. For example, we feel she would make a fantastic lawyer. But after a bad experience at debating she has decided for herself that law is not for her. We tried explaining to her but it does not work. Ultimately it is she who has to make that choice. Only then would she stand by it and defend it like she does now!
ReplyDeletebeautifully analysed.
ReplyDeleteI think in India , the 'Law' exists to protect the lawless and exploit the innocent.
Just a look at the legal language is enough to convince one that it's sole purpose is to confuse rather than convince and to find loopholes rather than solutions.